Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Is it ok for me to have a problem with my ex partner introducing his new girlfriend to my child?

Let me clear something from the beginning I do not have any feeling towards my ex but I have an issue of him bringing my 2 year old boy to his new girlfriend. There are lots of things that to me seem weird after each visit that my child takes to his place. I have raised my consern to him of what I feel uncomfortable and he just dont want to hear it.. He says that he does not have to share what he does and goes on with our son when he is with him. To some extend i understand that and respect that but when my son comes crying saying he does not want to go back to daddy's and i heard him telling a littler girl do not hit me over the  phone  makes me wonder if he should have an open door policy when it comes to spending time with our son.  I have a problem with her changing my sons diaper and intruding with the uprising of my child specially that they have only a month or two together. I believe its way to fast. Am I wrong with feeling the way I feel ???
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  1. negroNovember 30, 2011 at 4:14 PM

    If ur son is coming home crying that he doesn't want to then he's not going till we get to this bottom of things

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  2. delacrcNovember 30, 2011 at 9:03 PM

    IF YOUR SON DOES NOT WANT TO GO SEE HIS DAD, IS FOR A REASON. I THINK VISITS WITH DAD SHOULD BE STOPPED. UNTIL YOU AND DAD AGREE ON A SOLUTION TO THESE CONCERNS YOU HAVE. SPECIALLY IF YOUR SON IS VERY YOUNG. YOUR SON IS NOT OLD ENOUGH TO EXPRESS WHAT HE FEELS OR TELL YOU WHY HE DOESNT WANT TO GO SEE DAD. I BELIEVE VISIT WITH DAD SHOULD BE SUPERVISED BY YOU. YOU CAN SIT AND EXPRESS YOUR CONCERNS TO DAD AND COME TO AN UNDERSTANDING. YOUR SON SHOULD NOT BE OBLIGATED TO GO WITH DAD IF HE DOESNT WANT TO BECAUSE YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON. IT MIGHT BE SOMETHING SMALL THAT YOUR SON DOESNT LIKE BUT IT CAN BE SERIOUS. SINCE YOU DO NOT KNOW. PLAY IT SAFE AND PROTECT YOUR CHILD UNTIL YOU KNOW WHY YOUR SON FEELS THIS WAY. THERE IS NO WAY OF YOU KNOWING IF THE GIRLFRIEND IS THE CAUSE OF YOUR SON DISCOMFORT, THEREFORE YOU SHOULD KEEP HER OUT OF THE CONVERSATION WHEN TALKING TO DAD ABOUT YOUR CONCERNS. DAD IS A GUY, HE'S GOING TO THINK YOU ARE JEALOUS AND IGNORE YOUR CONCERNS.

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